How I Found Myself When My Best Friend Dumped Me

Have you ever experienced the heart-wrenching feeling of being dumped by your best friend? Losing someone who has been a constant presence in your life can be devastating, leaving you feeling lost and alone. However, I learned that this experience can also be an opportunity for self-discovery and growth.

It all started one summer when my best friend, Emma, suddenly stopped returning my calls and texts. At first, I brushed it off, thinking she must be busy with work or personal issues. But as days turned into weeks and weeks turned into months, it became clear that our friendship was coming to an end.

The pain I felt was indescribable. Emma had been my rock, my confidante, and my partner-in-crime for years. We had shared countless memories and supported each other through thick and thin. Losing her felt like losing a part of myself.

Get Lost, Girlfriend!: How I Found Myself When My Best Friend Dumped Me

by Sharon Livingston (Kindle Edition)

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As I mourned the loss of our friendship, I found myself going through the stages of grief. Denial, anger, bargaining, depression... I experienced them all. It was a rollercoaster of emotions that took a toll on my mental health.

But amidst the heartache, I started to realize that this could be an opportunity for self-reflection. I began asking myself questions that I had never considered before. Who was I without Emma? What did I truly value in a friendship? How could I be a better friend to others?

I decided to channel my pain into productive outlets. I started journaling, using it as a way to process my emotions and gain clarity on my own identity. Through writing, I discovered my passion for storytelling and self-expression. It became a therapeutic practice that helped me find solace in my solitude.

Additionally, I threw myself into new experiences and social settings. I joined clubs and organizations, pushing myself to meet new people and form new connections. It was in these moments of vulnerability that I discovered that I had been relying too heavily on my friendship with Emma for validation and a sense of belonging.

By stepping out of my comfort zone, I began to understand my own worth and the strength I possessed within. I realized that my identity was not solely defined by my relationships, but also by my own unique qualities and interests. I embraced my individuality and celebrated the person I was becoming.

Over time, the pain of losing my best friend started to fade. It was replaced by a newfound appreciation for the lessons it had taught me. I realized that while friendships can be beautiful and fulfilling, they should never define our sense of self-worth.

Today, I am grateful for the experience of losing my best friend. It forced me to confront my own insecurities and grow as an individual. I now understand that true happiness comes from within and that relying solely on others for validation is a disservice to myself.

If you are going through a similar situation, I encourage you to embrace the opportunity for self-discovery that comes with it. Take the time to reflect on who you are outside of your friendships and explore new interests and experiences. Remember that your worth is not determined by others, but by your own self-acceptance and love.

Although losing a best friend can be painful, it can also be a catalyst for personal growth and inner strength. Embrace the process and remember that you have the power to find yourself, even in the midst of heartbreak.

Get Lost, Girlfriend!: How I Found Myself When My Best Friend Dumped Me

by Sharon Livingston (Kindle Edition)

4 out of 5

Language	:	English
File size	:	584 KB
Text-to-Speech	:	Enabled
Screen Reader	:	Supported
Enhanced typesetting	:	Enabled
Word Wise	:	Enabled
Print length	:	328 pages
Lending	:	Enabled

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Being dumped by your BFF may feel like the worst betrayal you could ever face,
worse than being–

•ditched by your man,
•snubbed by your dog (the cat does it regularly, so that doesn’t count), or
•fired by your housekeeper.

But in every crisis there’s opportunity, right?

This is story of how a quirky therapist answers the phone one day, only to hear her closest friend say the dreaded words that cut her off forever.

For months, she struggles to pull herself out of the deepest hole she’s ever fallen into. But how is that possible, with no friend to grab onto?

By looking hard in the mirror, with Windex in one hand and a comical dash of magic in the other, she discovers a new best friend ever – herself.